Monday, May 16, 2011

Not cool.

Know what is very uncool?  Friends who are really (super) needy when they are single, but as soon as they are dating someone, are always too busy for you, because they've planned their lives months in advance with the guy (because they simply transferred their neediness and insecurity to him).  Crappy.  The end.

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  1. Yeah I have to be honest: I've been on both sides of this. It does suck. Especially after a certain age it's definitely not acceptable anymore, I think.

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  2. This situation is super frustrating, because when the person I am dealing with became single and needy, she informed me I had not made her feel special and cared for for a very long time - very hard to do when she could never see me or talk to me. So I began trying, but then she met someone new and the cycle began again - not cool.

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